I found a neat entry in Scribd of recipes for mystical oils.
Oil Recipes
Recipes for Mystical Oils
Aquamarine
Aquamarine is a type of beryl, that ranges from very light to bright blue-green. Like kyanite, it owes its bluish color to the aluminum in it. It’s found mostly in Brazil, but there is some in other places where there are deposits of tin. Other stones that may be found near or with it are feldspar and tourmaline.
Metaphysical/Mystical Properties
Aquamarine is symbolic of the sea, and is said to bring good luck to sailors. It is also said to be a cure-all, but in truth, its energy is more specific. It has a cooling effect when rubbed on the skin because it draws away heat. So it is useful for someone who tends to get hot or a rise in blood pressure when they are stressed. It also helps someone to control their anger.
Because of its close association with water, it helps to regulate the body’s water balance. If you tend to get thirsty often due to diabetes, or are easily dehydrated, then while you’re being treated for the main problem, carrying or wearing an aquamarine near the throat or chest can help.
Caring For Your Aquamarine
Clean aquamarine with clear water. Do not let it get too hot, or bake it in the oven to make polymer clay handles for them, or they may split. It won’t get damaged from normal wear, but beryl can shatter like a diamond if it is smashed against something.
Kyanite
Kyanite is a very under-appreciated stone because it isn’t often found in gem quality. Usually, it’s ground up and used as an industrial abraisive or a kind of glitter for ceramics. This special aluminum silicate though, packs a powerful metaphysical punch, as in the few cases that it is found tightly packed enough not to fall apart, it is breathtakingly beautiful and immediately takes the viewer to a calmer state. The reason why is because it reminds one of water. Indeed, even touching it feels like touching ice that isn’t frozen.
The reason why is because of the columns of crystal that form kyanite. It’ll always have multiple levels of hardness. So a sensitive person will feel the slight ridges and perhaps even the varying temperatures of the columns.
Metaphysical/Mystical Properties
Kyanite is a calming stone. It helps one to relax and keep a cool head during tough times. It is an interesting coincidence that it is becoming more popular these days, as many people have found their lives turned upside down because of financial problems.
It’s a great stone for competitive athletes, and students during exam season. It’s also said to make people less nervous when trying to speak a new language.
One not so well known use of kyanite is to dispell the “evil eye”. It amplifies the effect of eye symbols, and is used by some as the eye itself on hamza symbols. The refractory effect is said to confuse any possible jealous or possessive onlookers.
Caring For Your Kyanite
It does not need to be “cleaned” in the same way as other stones. A little time in sunlight will do, if you feel it necessary. If it gets physically dirty, just rinse it with room temperature water.
Keep kyanite from rubbing too much against other stones or even normal hard objects. It has perfect cleavage, so a chip will turn into a full fledged split. This is why the water you clean it with should be room temperature. Rapid changes may split your stone.
Pink Opal
Pink opal generally comes from Peru, but there may be small desposits in other areas of central and South America. What gives it its pink color is quinones, which come from oxidized plant matter.
Like other types of opal, it is a hydrated silica. This means that it has a combination water and mineral structure, and is more truly a petrified clump of mineral gel than an actual stone. Indeed, if you gently tap one with your teeth or fingernail, it will feel not quite stone and not quite plastic. If you rub it with your dry finger, it “sings” somewhat similarly to jade, but you may notice a kind of thump each time your finger switches directions.
Pink opals don’t produce the “light play” that others do, but they are still quite beautiful in their own way. They run from opaque to translucent, and are found in a variety of sizes and shades of pink. Generally, they run from almost creamy beige colored, to fierce baby pink. There are some though, that look almost pastel mauve. If you see one darker than that, it may have been dyed. Because it’s a relatively inexpensive stone, some jewelry manufacturers feel free to dye them to make them more pink. In my opinion, that is a shame as the variety of shades is what makes them interesting to look at.
Metaphysical/Mystical Properties
The deity that pink opal is most strongly associated with is PachaMama, the indigenous Andean Mother Goddess or maternal aspect of God, depending on your approach to spirituality. It would therefore also be associated with similarly approached maternal aspects such as Mawu or Mawu-Lisa, Yemaya, Tiamat, Tenet/Tanith, the Soul of the Virgin Mary, or the Holy Spirit.
The astrological sign associated with pink opal is Virgo. This is contrary to what many say, but it is a pink water silica for crying out loud. It is a good assistant to affirmation for those born under that sign, but also draws good fortune in romance to Scorpios and Libras born in October.
Regardless of your sign, wearing pink opal attracts earthy to intellectual dominant people. That would be 11 o’clock to 1 o’clock on the LaVeyan TSW personality scale. Dominant women want to put their hands on it. Dominant men want to touch the person wearing it. So if you are a 5-7 o’clock, you’ll attract good matches by wearing this stone in plain view.
In crystal therapy, pink opal helps to open the heart and throat chakras, so it helps to relieve stress, especially that caused by a broken heart or unrequited love. It enables the person to heal or get over their obsession more quickly with a sort of psychological “absorbing” effect. Indeed opal, like amber, literally absorbs water from who it touches. So it as if the person is in a way, bleeding their pain to the stone, as if it was kind of a mental bandage.
For the purpose of helping to speed recovery from heartbreak, or lessen the intensity, it should be paired with ruby. Ruby is like the psychological alcohol of matters of the heart. It cleans and purifies. So with pink opal doing the drawing, and ruby doing the cleansing and cauterization, the person can move forward more easily. If you give them an amulet to wear that has both of these stones in it, even better. Just remember that the opal needs to be fed water, and the ruby needs to be fed light.
Caring for Your Pink Opal
Pink opals should be stored in a cool, dark place. Keep your stone in a dark bag to protect it from sunlight, and heat. It is also easily chipped and scratched by other stones, so it should be in a bag even if you keep your stones in a box.
Every couple of months, let your opal soak in a glass of clear water overnight. Because of its nature, remember that it absorbs water from anyone it touches, so don’t use it on one person and then another right away. It should be “cleaned” before it is used on another. So if you are treating multiple people for romantic issues, then you should have enough for each of them for a month or two month period.
Why It’s Wrong to Be a Pushover
Being a pushover is something that usually happens because someone is afraid to say no. They don’t want people to be angry with them or disapprove of them, and/or they don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. Sometimes the person fancies themselves a kind of martyr for the whole world, but most of the time they just have a problem in allowing specific people to take advantage of them. It could be friends, parents, or their children, or anyone else close to them who they think it’s their job to appease.
Often, when trying to help the volunteer martyr, people treat them like the victim. In a sense they are, but only in a consensual sense. They are not being forced to do anything. Even though it may cost them pain or have other consequences, a person always has the option of standing down and withstanding whatever results from that. The reason they let other people take advantage of them is because this is an opportunity to take advantage of the other.
It’s a cycle. The supposed martyr allows the other person to harm or take advantage of them. In return, they get ego gratification and pumped up by their getting to feel like the poor angelic victim or self sacrificing saint. This teaches the seeming attacker or advantage taker that it is okay to harm people because they can. This doesn’t pan out so well with other people, so in order to get their ego gratified by harming someone, they have to return to the volunteer martyr.
In essence, the martyr takes on the role of an enabler, or the drug itself. They feed someone else’s addiction to inflicting harm, but at the same time feed their own addiction to the ego boost that comes with voluntarily being harmed.
So they create a kind of mutually parasitic relationship. Between consenting adults, this might not be such a bad thing if they’re conscious of it, and it has limits. However, when people train their children to be offenders or martyrs, that’s when we’re delving into the dark side.
To train a child to believe that it’s okay to harm people or take advantage of them is a bad survival lesson. These things are not okay, and could get them into serious trouble. If they don’t get into trouble, they will at least leave a path of destruction that will kind of mess up your little plan to not hurt anybody by saying no to them. What necessary hurt you avoid today by being capitulating, will lead to much unnecessary harm tomorrow. This will be your fault because you created that monster and then unleashed it on the world.
How to make it stop? Start by making rules for yourself, not for other people. Figure out what your limits are, and don’t let anyone cross them. It’s not selfish to have limits. It’s not selfish to want to save money or want to have nice things that other people don’t destroy. In fact, when you have boundaries, it teaches those you deal with, that people have boundaries, which is a good survival lesson.
After you’ve decided what you limits are, you can develop policies for how to wage relationships so that people are unlikely to step on you, thinking it’s okay. You can tailor your appearance, language, and habits to express your newfound desire to live as a confident non parasite.
Join these people at 43 Things who want to stop being pushovers.

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