Custom love and reconciliation spells and workings are highly individual, so I can’t give a set price for them until we do a love reading. You can get an instant free love reading by using our engine here. It is very accurate because we give offerings to keep it blessed. If you prefer a reading done by hand, you can have that too. These are very inexpensive because it is much simpler and faster than a full bone or tarot reading. You may pay in the shopping cart here:
Love Divination: $5 (U.S.)
Or use my Paypal link at https://paypal.me/sheloya
Then, you should contact me using the form on this page or on Facebook or email. I will need your and your loved one’s:
- full names
- dates of birth
- anniversary of marriage or first intimate relations
- and you should tell me if you have any biological children together, or if you acquired any pets or livestock together
I will do an initial coin reading to determine whether the three main Orishas in charge of romantic relationships approve of the relationship continuing. This will tell us whether or not we should even start to think of applying spells or offerings to the situation.
To avoid confusion, if your Paypal name/alias is different than your full name, or the email address you are using is different, please make a note of this in the message area of the form. For confidentiality reasons, it is important that I know who is who.
Please pay the fee using the shopping cart, and then fill out this form to find out about your relationship. You will receive a response from Sheloya with a photo of your assessment as soon as possible.
You will be returned to this page after submitting the form. I encourage you to read on so that you will understand the results of your inquiry.
Who are the main three Orishas in charge of relationships, and why?
The three Orishas in charge of romantic relationships are Eshu, the Ancestors/Egungun, and Oshun.
Eshu – the Gate Keeper opens and closes the way to *everything*. He decides if something will go forward or not. He is also an initiator, so sometimes he will approve of a relationship because it is to give you something you need, or teach you something you will need for your future. If he disapproves, that means the way is closed for some reason, and this may or may not be permanent, depending on the position of the Ancestors.
The Ancestors/Egungun – they live in our very DNA, and are reborn through us. So they determine whether or not we will have intimate relations and/or children with someone. If they approve, that means that someone is a good match in the way that they would be happy to be reborn through you and that person. If they disapprove, then that means that you are not a good match for making children, or that they do not approve of you making more children with them.
Oshun – she is the Orisha of romantic love, joy, and prosperity. She makes the “butterflies” in your stomach, and the bonding sentiments that come with love. If she approves, then there are at least nice feelings there. If she disapproves then there will be no joy in that relationship. If she approves and the others don’t then she may be warning that the relationship is actually more shallow than you think it is, and based mostly on illusions…or perhaps deception.
The initial reading will tell us what, if anything, I can do to help you to get your relationship started, or repair it if it has broken.
If both Eshu and the Ancestors disapprove, then it is best that you move on. The only good reason to pursue a love spell in that case would be for revenge or closure. If they all approve, or at least the Ancestors do, then you have options.
There are inexpensive standard spells that work for most situations. These are done in the course of our daily observances on auspicious days of the week. For love, this is Saturday. We do the spell and appropriate meditation and chants, and give offerings to Oshun, usually of sweets, gold, and other things she likes. This is enough to fix most situations, or at least push them in the right direction. Some people also do this for monthly or yearly offerings of thanks or maintenance for a love spell that worked for them. Because spiritually correct is not the same as politically correct, there are different rules for relationships in which there are or aren’t children (by birth or adoption or blended families). If you are in a relationship with no children, or the children have not identified your partner as a parent, the standard spell option or donating to ebbos are the best. This is because the standard spells and ebbo contributions are less exacting, and there is still an opening for the Orishas to bring you a new partner if the current one is simply not good relationship material, or they are too stubborn and resistant for any spell to work that does not inhibit their free will.
Custom workings are for when a greater impact is needed to correct a situation. If you opt for a custom love work, the cost generally runs about $1500 to $2000 to do it correctly outside of festival times. During the festivals (the months of March and August), a full working can be done for $250 because they are done as a group instead of individually.
Love spells and workings are only part of the solution to a problem though. Usually there is a behavioral or situational blockage that needs to be corrected. Read this article for women and feminine people, or this article for male or masculine people, to see if there is something you can do to ensure that the way is clear.
If you really need a custom working, and got approval from at least Eshu and the Ancestors, and there is not an emergency situation like another woman/man or a court date, I recommend doing it during the festivals. I announce at ObeahWoman.com and on Facebook when community ebbos are coming, so you can know the exact dates.
For custom love workings, you will need to send me a small personal effect from yourself and your loved one. It doesn’t need to be something big. A small sample will do, like some of their hair or a napkin they used. It can even be the butt of a cigarette they smoked or a cutting from where their lips touched their coffee cup or something. Just make sure that it is fully dry, placed in an airtight bag, and labeled so that I know whose it is. I recommend these be placed in a notecard or greeting card so they don’t get too mangled in the shipping.
A custom love working comes with supplies. You will get at least:
- customized Oshun oil
- the talisman/generator in a special bag or box
If needed, you may also get:
- a special lipgloss so that your loved one (or others you speak to with it on) will want to do as you say
- a grid or spikes to prevent straying or block others’ witchcraft
- a necklace or bracelet for attraction
- or whatever other supplies the divination and situation calls for
Workings are very efficient, but not always the answer. If a full working is not within your budget, you can always get added to my altar, or give offerings to the Orishas that you can afford.
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