Love is a wonderful gift from Oshun. It is the reason mankind hasn’t died out. Every creature from the tiniest microbe to the largest sea mammal seeks some sort of union and affection in its way. As crucial as love is to life though, it can be wrought with fear and frustration. To help clear away some confusion and figure out whether you are compatible with someone you love, or if there may be some problem, I do a love reading. It’s a fast way to at least know where things stand at the moment.
If you just want to know quickly what the Orishas have to say about your relationship right now, here it is:
Eshu has bestowed you luck in love.
Right now, you are at a high point in your luck in seduction or matters of the heart. If you state your feelings sincerely or go out to flirt within the next three days, you have a better chance than normal of success.
To confirm your blessing, you should give Eshu some sort of offering. These can be given at a crossroads, a corner, or an in-between place like between two trees or between two buildings.
You are HOT right now.
The Ancestors want children from this match.
Well, they at least want you to have consensual sexual relations with the object of your desires. You should try to seduce them if it is at all possible.
If you have been dragging your feet, this is your signal to make a move or commit. If you have been too proud to initiate, or you think you are out of their league, then this is the message to put your ego aside.
This person is a gift for you that you should not take for granted. If you mess it up or can’t get your ego out of the way of your heart, you may lose your chance.
If the Ancestors are conflicting with Eshu, it means that you should either “hit it and forget it” or keep things focused around having children and/or appearances if needed. Do not expect to have an all-around relationship with this person. They are to serve a specific purpose in your life…at least this is how they should be treated. They may care for you, but some people’s background does not allow for much intimacy or any possible room for any illusion that they can afford to not perform their function. This is a common divination result nowadays when people have a “disney” idea of romance that they can for example, not feed their children properly and still be viewed as a good parent, or stress and neglect their partner sexually and still expect monogamy. Some people you have to seemingly mistreat or be harsh with in order to keep them.
If the Ancestors are conflicting with Oshun, it could mean that you are the one in the relationship with the crazy demands or belief that you can be dysfunctional and still have or keep a partner. For some reason, no matter how messed up you are, your Ancestors are loving and strong, and they know that you will have a good life if you stick with this person. So even though you are having doubts about your feelings because you know your potential partner is demanding or “high maintenance”, being with them will be good for you, and your feelings are not what is important because you are flakey and fickle. So your partner is like vegetables. Not your favorite food, but the best thing for you.
Alternatively, if there is a conflict with both Eshu and Oshun, it could mean that your potential partner doesn’t feel much for you, or would definitely not be good for the long term, but they are good breeding material. The babies would be healthy and/or very good additions to humanity.
Either they don’t feel bound to you or you don’t really feel bound enough to them, or don’t feel bound to them the right way. Something is missing here.
Be more old fashioned.
Times have changed, and now people have many choices for the kinds of relationships that are possible. In many places, you can now live in at least a relative peace with your male, female, intersex, or multiple partners. You are even free to explore yourself and change, or to never choose a specific label. This is a wonderful time to live in because even where there isn’t so much freedom, it is clear that freedom is coming. It is inevitable because love is stronger than hate.
Thing is, though the times have changed and most of us have more options, people still need to eat, to sleep, and have other basic needs that have to be met. So ideals are wonderful, but you need good practical actions to make your dreams a reality.
Think about the goals of your relationship. You love them and they may love you too, but love neither pays the bills nor cleans the toilets. In order for people to stay alive in today’s world, there needs to be providers of resources and managers of resources. Historically, these jobs went to at least two different people, usually more when extended family was available.
If you are finding that your relationships stagnate or fizzle out or break when things start to get serious, it may be that you don’t have the practical skills it takes to be more than amusement, or you are choosing partners who don’t. This or because someone who anticipates a role as a provider of resources does not see you as a good manager, or someone who anticipates being a manager does not see you as a good provider. Perhaps someone with a combination of skills doesn’t see you as a compatible balance.
If you’re seeing this message, you need to think about your role. What do you see yourself actually doing for your partner? What are you bringing to the table? It may not be all about gender roles anymore, but some do coincide with practical skills and abilities and biological realities.
Male, female, or somewhere in between, we all need to have home building skills to build homes.
This does not necessarily mean that everything is okay or that all hope is lost. It’s just speaking as to how things are at this moment, or what could be if things continue the way they are going.
You are not powerless.
You can request a love reading or bone reading by hand, or you can order a standard working, donate to an ebbo, or request custom root work.
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