Love is a wonderful gift from Oshun. It is the reason mankind hasn’t died out. Every creature from the tiniest microbe to the largest sea mammal seeks some sort of union and affection in its way. As crucial as love is to life though, it can be wrought with fear and frustration. To help clear away some confusion and figure out whether you are compatible with someone you love, or if there may be some problem, I do a love reading. It’s a fast way to at least know where things stand at the moment.
If you just want to know quickly what the Orishas have to say about your relationship right now, here it is:
Eshu has brought you a learning experience.
This relationship will teach you something important about life and love. It could be an easy lesson or a painful one. It could lead to joy or to pain depending how you approach it.
The important thing now is to pay attention to the signs and signals. When confronted with a situation, think, “What would Eshu do?”
He is the Orisha of doorways and gates, so have an open mind. Listen for content and not to have a witty way to answer back.
He is the Orisha of boundaries, so make sure that even though your mind is open, you do not allow people to step on you or ignore your boundaries.
He is the Orisha of communication, so keep the lines of communication open. Your partner should feel free to speak with you honestly and without fear of retaliation.
He is also wise and cunning, so do not ignore any “red flags” or attempts at negative manipulation.
This is a message to raise your level of awareness and vigilance.
The Ancestors want children from this match.
Well, they at least want you to have consensual sexual relations with the object of your desires. You should try to seduce them if it is at all possible.
If you have been dragging your feet, this is your signal to make a move or commit. If you have been too proud to initiate, or you think you are out of their league, then this is the message to put your ego aside.
This person is a gift for you that you should not take for granted. If you mess it up or can’t get your ego out of the way of your heart, you may lose your chance.
If the Ancestors are conflicting with Eshu, it means that you should either “hit it and forget it” or keep things focused around having children and/or appearances if needed. Do not expect to have an all-around relationship with this person. They are to serve a specific purpose in your life…at least this is how they should be treated. They may care for you, but some people’s background does not allow for much intimacy or any possible room for any illusion that they can afford to not perform their function. This is a common divination result nowadays when people have a “disney” idea of romance that they can for example, not feed their children properly and still be viewed as a good parent, or stress and neglect their partner sexually and still expect monogamy. Some people you have to seemingly mistreat or be harsh with in order to keep them.
If the Ancestors are conflicting with Oshun, it could mean that you are the one in the relationship with the crazy demands or belief that you can be dysfunctional and still have or keep a partner. For some reason, no matter how messed up you are, your Ancestors are loving and strong, and they know that you will have a good life if you stick with this person. So even though you are having doubts about your feelings because you know your potential partner is demanding or “high maintenance”, being with them will be good for you, and your feelings are not what is important because you are flakey and fickle. So your partner is like vegetables. Not your favorite food, but the best thing for you.
Alternatively, if there is a conflict with both Eshu and Oshun, it could mean that your potential partner doesn’t feel much for you, or would definitely not be good for the long term, but they are good breeding material. The babies would be healthy and/or very good additions to humanity.
Either they don’t feel bound to you or you don’t really feel bound enough to them, or don’t feel bound to them the right way. Something is missing here.
Love always causes pain. It always begins with the awareness of the fear of losing our connection with the person we love. In fact, the way that the people we love could hurt us the most is by rejecting us.
The way to lessen this pain is not to love people less, but to understand that though love itself is eternal, the feeling of love in mortal beings is temporary. It will either die or it will change.
Understanding this, people who intend to be spouses for life should allow each other and the love between them to change and grow, or it will die. Sometimes it means stepping out of one’s comfort zone in order to continue to relate to each other. Sometimes it means opening the relationship. Either way, if love must be restricted to a specific circumstance, it simply cannot last. It will die as soon as the circumstances change in that case.
Like a muscle that cramps up if it doesn’t move for too long, love must be flexible to not end in pain.
This does not necessarily mean that everything is okay or that all hope is lost. It’s just speaking as to how things are at this moment, or what could be if things continue the way they are going.
You are not powerless.
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