Love is a wonderful gift from Oshun. It is the reason mankind hasn’t died out. Every creature from the tiniest microbe to the largest sea mammal seeks some sort of union and affection in its way. As crucial as love is to life though, it can be wrought with fear and frustration. To help clear away some confusion and figure out whether you are compatible with someone you love, or if there may be some problem, I do a love reading. It’s a fast way to at least know where things stand at the moment.
If you just want to know quickly what the Orishas have to say about your relationship right now, here it is:
Eshu has brought you a learning experience.
This relationship will teach you something important about life and love. It could be an easy lesson or a painful one. It could lead to joy or to pain depending how you approach it.
The important thing now is to pay attention to the signs and signals. When confronted with a situation, think, “What would Eshu do?”
He is the Orisha of doorways and gates, so have an open mind. Listen for content and not to have a witty way to answer back.
He is the Orisha of boundaries, so make sure that even though your mind is open, you do not allow people to step on you or ignore your boundaries.
He is the Orisha of communication, so keep the lines of communication open. Your partner should feel free to speak with you honestly and without fear of retaliation.
He is also wise and cunning, so do not ignore any “red flags” or attempts at negative manipulation.
This is a message to raise your level of awareness and vigilance.
The Ancestors say that you are not a match.
The person you are asking about does not belong in your family, or the time that they have spent with you is enough. They have served their purpose and are of no further use to you.
If you have children with them already, and they are not abusive, you should try to maintain amicable relations with them for the sake of the children. Otherwise, walk away and do not look back.
Oshun is not feeling this relationship.
Either they don’t feel bound to you or you don’t really feel bound enough to them, or don’t feel bound to them the right way. Something is missing here.
Be more old fashioned.
Times have changed, and now people have many choices for the kinds of relationships that are possible. In many places, you can now live in at least a relative peace with your male, female, intersex, or multiple partners. You are even free to explore yourself and change, or to never choose a specific label. This is a wonderful time to live in because even where there isn’t so much freedom, it is clear that freedom is coming. It is inevitable because love is stronger than hate.
Thing is, though the times have changed and most of us have more options, people still need to eat, to sleep, and have other basic needs that have to be met. So ideals are wonderful, but you need good practical actions to make your dreams a reality.
Think about the goals of your relationship. You love them and they may love you too, but love neither pays the bills nor cleans the toilets. In order for people to stay alive in today’s world, there needs to be providers of resources and managers of resources. Historically, these jobs went to at least two different people, usually more when extended family was available.
If you are finding that your relationships stagnate or fizzle out or break when things start to get serious, it may be that you don’t have the practical skills it takes to be more than amusement, or you are choosing partners who don’t. This or because someone who anticipates a role as a provider of resources does not see you as a good manager, or someone who anticipates being a manager does not see you as a good provider. Perhaps someone with a combination of skills doesn’t see you as a compatible balance.
If you’re seeing this message, you need to think about your role. What do you see yourself actually doing for your partner? What are you bringing to the table? It may not be all about gender roles anymore, but some do coincide with practical skills and abilities and biological realities.
Male, female, or somewhere in between, we all need to have home building skills to build homes.
This does not necessarily mean that everything is okay or that all hope is lost. It’s just speaking as to how things are at this moment, or what could be if things continue the way they are going.
You are not powerless.
You can request a love reading or bone reading by hand, or you can order a standard working, donate to an ebbo, or request custom root work.
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